Mukamo Advice

Dear Mukamo,

Kung sakaling crush mo ang friend mo na syota naman ng friend mo rin, na nahuli mo namang niloloko siya nito (nanliligaw pa ng iba, nakikipag date etc.) and parang taken for granted siya..pero sobrang martir naman at mapaguusapan naman daw iyon nilang dalawa. anu ang gagawin mo na alam mo namang crush na crush mo siya? please advise. thanks.

1st Response..
kung ako sa yo, iko confront ko yung friend mo at sasabihin ko sa kanya na hindi tama ang ginagawa nya sa panloloko sa syota nya na kras mo. dun mo malalaman din kung tunay syang friend mo at makikinig sya sa yo at ititigil nya yung panloloko na ginagawa nya. kung makita mo naman na magbago sya then continue your friendship and maintain mo lang yung distance mo sa crush mo. pero kung hindi sya magbabago at tuloy parin ang panloloko, nasa yo na ngayon kung ano ang dapat mong gawin, at kung ako sa yo sasabihin ko sa friend mo na may gusto ka sa syota nya. e ano ngayon kung magalit o kung ano man ang sabihin nya sa yo, so what.

2nd Response..
ang importante ay yung malaman nya na may pagtingin ka sa syota nya at baka bitiwan din nya yun. at mabuti din na malaman din ng syota nya na may gusto ka sa kanya and who knows, baka magka gusto din sya sa yo dahil pinapakita mo na care na care mo sya talaga at pinu protektahan sa mga kalokohan ng hudas mong friend, haha. kaya lang ang problema ay yung syota, baka to much ang pagka martir at kahit alam na nya na niloloko sya sige parin ang buntot at habol dun sa friend mo. sana naman hindi ganon. That's their problem. Not yours.Your problem is you're a stalker. And for that kinakawawa mo lang ang sarili mo. Why limit yourself on just one girl?.

C'mon, kung yung friend mo nga nanliligaw at nakikipag-date sa iba, why don't you likewise? just keep on giving the girlyour advices. maybe your friend'semotional attachment to her boyfriend is just too strong for her to see that shedoesn't deserve this kind of treating.maybe in time, she'll realize that the guyis not worth of the love she's giving him. when it comes to love, people really tryeverything to salvage the relationshipeven if it's really not worth it. just pray that she wakes up and realizethat it's all a waste of time and effort.tell her she deserves better than this....

third one..
Ayan... basahin mo yang lyrics na yan... Hehehe! Bagay sau itong kantang ito. I-feel mo na ikaw yung kumakanta. Hehe!

Ruff Endz - If I Was The One

I see the way he treats youI feel the tears you’ve cried
And it makes me sadAnd it makes me mad
There’s I can do baby Cause your lover is my best friend
And I guess that’s were the story ends
So I gotta try to keep it inside you will never be, never be mine

Chorus
But if I was the one who was loving you baby
The only tears you’d cry would be tears of joy
And if I was by your side
You’d never know one lonely night

And if it was my arms you were running to
I’d give you love in these arms of mineIf I was the one in your life
If I could have just one wishI’d wish that you were mineI would hold you nearKiss away those tearsI’d be so good to you baby

You’re the one I want next to me
But I guess that’s just not meant to be
He’s there in your life sharing your nights
You will never be, never be mine

Chorus
I wanna reach out and feel you beside me (right here beside me babe)
Take you in my arms right now
Scream I love right out loud
Someday I pray that ill find the strength
To turn to you and say…
Chorus (x2)

and the last one..
At least you know where you are. And you're not lost. The girl made her decision...... to stay..... even she's hurt. You have to respect that.Pag nalaman pa yan nung guy na nakikialam ka.. malaking away yan. So I suggest that you stay away from this conflict. nd you're right, the moment the girl decided to get off the rough rail, then that's the only time you'll have your chance.But..... again, that's hoping in the dark. You keep on looking at her situation, you'll get hurt likewise. tart getting busy somewhere else. Don't let this situation hinder your growth.